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What does Thanksgiving mean to you?

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What does Thanksgiving mean to you? Do you wait for the Thanksgiving holiday to be thankful and eat with your family? Some people look forward to Thanksgiving because it is the only day of the year family and friends can get together to eat a good dinner and catch up. We allow ourselves to be so busy to the point we don’t have time to sit at the dinner table to enjoy a nice meal with people you love and to have a good conversation. We get caught up with worldly things and we forget to be thankful for what is important in our lives everyday like waking up every morning. People do not realize it is therapeutic and healthy to have a home cooked dinner with good company and to show gratitude everyday. Ask yourself when was the last time you had a home cooked dinner with family friends consistently? You do not have to wait for Thanksgiving to do it.
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My Thoughts.

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Someday soon you will realize what is important in your life. You will have the strength to stop chasing people who do not deserve a second of your time. You will understand how it is imperative to live in the present and focus on only today. Learn to live, love, forgive, and laugh. Do not spend a second worrying about yesterday or tomorrow. Do not spend a second on anger, revenge, and hate. That my friend is a waste of your precious time. I challenge you to look in the mirror and tell the person you see in the mirror “I love being with you every second of the day and you are special.”
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Purr-Fect Diva

What is a Diva? Are Diva’s selfish and self centered? My definition of a Purr-Fect Diva is a woman who is focused in getting what she desires and she is always authentic. The correct definition of a Diva is a celebrate female singer who is very talented. As you remember Beyoncé made a song about it. Beyoncé knows she is a Diva and I agree. She stayed focused in achieving her desires and she is humble about her success now that is a Purr-Fect Diva. There are so many Purr-Fect Diva’s such as Angela Basset, Viola Davis, Meryl Streep, Sandra Bullock, Phylicia Rashad, and Alfre Woodard. The original Purr-Fect Divas were Bette Davis, Marlene Dietrich, Lauren Becall, Eartha Kitt, Dorothy Dandridge, Marilyn Monroe, and Josephine Baker.  Each of these women were focused and their dreams came true. Most of them had a hard life when they were younger and overcame all the obstacles to achieve what they desired. I consider myself to be a Purr-Fect Diva too. earthakit

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Has the Bond of Sisterhood Disintegrated Amongst Women today?

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Has the Bond of Sisterhood Disintegrated Amongst Women today?

Women’s Rights Movement began in 1848. Women gathered together to fight for their rights. During the movement, women did not have time to back stab each other or fight against each other. They walked with purpose for each other for all men and women to be treated equally. The Women Rights Movements focused on serious issues which limited women’s rights such as family responsibilities, a lack of educational and economic opportunities, and the absence of a voice in political debates.

Today it seems most women are fighting and competing against each other. Gossiping behind each other’s back, disrespecting each other by sleeping with another woman’s man, calling each other horrible names, getting into physical altercations, and initiate rumors about each other. How and why did this all happen? It is sad when most women are unable to get along.

A few weeks ago there was an article regarding an altercation between Geneva Thomas and Melyssa Ford from “Blood, Sweat, and Heels” Reality Show on Bravo. It was sad to read about 2 intelligent women at a lovely boat ride getting into a serious argument which lead to one them having to go to the hospital to get 3 stiches on the head. The majority of the Reality Shows are portraying women negatively. It is unfortunate most of these women in the Reality Show are allowing the world to see how most women cannot be friends, care for each other, and stand by each other.

Women need to remember how it was challenging for us to have our voices heard and be treated equally. Women stood by each other back then to fight a common cause which was to receive respect in the work place, in politics, television,  and at home. Instead of fighting and competing against each other, we need to build the bond of sisterhood and stand by and for each other.

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My Thoughts

It is very important to live in the now. Do not think about yesterday or tomorrow. Stay in the present. Think about what truly matters to you and what will make you happy. When you finally get the answer, go out and get it. Do not let anyone stand in your way. You have the power to make your dreams real. Believe in yourself and pray to God to always guide you. Do not hold on to grudges. Practice forgiveness first with yourself and then others. When you keep holding on to the pain all you are doing is keeping yourself from receiving the blessings God has for you. Make the choice right now to live, love, and laugh with no worries.

Good night and God bless.

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My Morning Thought

Good morning! I hope everyone had a wonderful weekend like I did. It was a beautiful weekend in New York. The weather was perfect. I spent my weekend helping students and attending church with one of my good friends. After church we went to Melba’s restaurant on West 114 street. I had their famous egg not chicken waffles. The food was good and the company was great! I enjoy having a nice brunch with good conversations about mostly everything. It was amazing in the conversation with one of the guest we found that we have a lot in common and her husband attended Cornell University with one of my old friends. Small world right. When I was at Church and at the brunch I did not thing about anything but living in the present. I did not think about yesterday or tomorrow. I was being grateful for now. It is good when you can do this. Since I had a great Sunday I know I will have a fantastic week. I know because God says so. He is with me always. I realized each day to allow God to guide me and ask him everyday to show me how to service you today? He shows me everyday and it is all with attitude and making someone else feel good about themselves.

I wish everyone to have a blessed week. Make it a good one. Do not let anyone have control over your emotions. If someone upsets you at work or anywhere else do not react in a negative way. All you can do is remain silent as say a prayer for that person who hurt made you upset or angry.

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My Thoughts for tonight.

In your quiet moments, what do you think about?  How far you’ve come, or how far you have to go?  Your strengths, or your weaknesses?  The best that might happen, or the worst that might come to be?  In your quiet moments, pay attention to your thoughts.  Because maybe, just maybe, the only thing that needs to shift in order for you to experience more happiness, more love, and more vitality, is your way of thinking.

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Today My Attitude Is

I am grateful God gave me breath to wake up this morning. I feel great and happy. I know I will continue to receive God’s favors. Everyday he blesses me with his love and protection. He shows me how to service him everyday. My attitude is always positive because of God. I know the media shares the sad stories with the world everyday and I get down on my knees and pray for those who are suffering. I make an effort everyday to bring a smile on a person’s face. I want people around me to feel and know God’s love so they can have peace and happiness in their hearts. There will always be tough times but a positive attitude and faith in God will see us through it. I strongly believe when we have a positive attitude nothing can bring us down. We were awaken by God this morning to service him and to fulfill our purpose today. Let us walk with a positive attitude and make someone smile today and everyday.

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My Thoughts for Tonight.

The days and weekends are going by very quickly. We are already in the middle of August which is the last month of the summer. I went to the mall today and I saw Fall and Winter shoes on display. The summer clothes were all on sale and the winter clothes were not on sale. Mothers were out shopping with their kids for back to school. I am not ready to see the summer go away. I have been enjoying every second of the summer. It has been great in New York and New Jersey, I love the sun and hot weather. I feel more energized and enjoy going to all the summer events. All I can say tonight is please do not rush time. Make an effort to live for today. Open your eyes and see today and appreciate it. Go by your window, look outside at the sky and count how many bright stars you see. Stay still and do not think about tomorrow morning. Just think about tonight and what you are doing now. Enjoy the summer night breeze. Smile and be thankful.

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My Thoughts for Tonight.

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I have learned not to attend arguments I have been invited to. I found I am a happier woman when I do not attend. We are going to meet people who wants to argue with us all the time. We have to show self control and not to react negatively. I no longer have the need to be right or show I am right. It is best to let go and let the person argue with him or herself. It is better not to look like a fool like the other person who is arguing. Living life is about surrounding yourself with peace. Life is too short to waste it on arguing. Stay calm and keep smiling.  

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