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Celebrities Who had babies before marriage.

We all heard of the “K-i-s-s-i-n-g” song when we were children. If you haven’t heard it this is it:

The K-i-s-s-i-n-g Song
Children’s Song
(Girl’s name) and (boy’s name) sitting in the tree
K-i-s-s-i-n-g! (spell it out)
First comes love.
Then comes marriage.
Then comes baby* in the baby carriage,
Sucking his thumb,
Wetting his pants,
Doing the hula, hula dance
This is what our parents wanted us to believe is the right way to be together with someone you love. Who knows what is the right way to be together anymore. Love is love and people are showing it before marriage and this is the reason more men and women are becoming parents first and husbands and wives second. No matter what order it is, at least he finally put the “ring on it.”
Here are a few celebrities who had a baby first and then married the love of their life.
Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie had their children before saying they said “I do.”
Lance Gross and his now wife Rebecca Jefferson recently married after having their adorable daughter.
Mendeecees Harris’ and Yandy Smith family and wedding pictures.
Love is a beautiful action and children are wonderful. I wish the happy couples and their family the best!
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Karrueche Tran on Iyanla “Fix My Life.”


Did you watch Karrueche Tran on Iyanla “Fix My Life.”? What did you think?

Iyanla did a great job in helping Karrueche through her healing process. We all have to admit breaking up with someone you care about is emotional and draining.  As I watched the show last night I was hurting for Karrueche for the lack of support by other women. I was disappointed when she mentioned there were women who tweeted negative words about her past relationship with Chris Brown. It was Karrueche’s choice to turn  to social media about her issues with Chris Brown. She expressed her sadness and betrayal therefore she had a lot of unwelcomed words.  She also shared her pain with the world last night by being on Iyanla “Fix My Life.” She invited the world to be in her personal life. It is her choice to express her pain the way she feels it is best. If it helps her release the anger and frustration she is dealing with, then so be it. I hope she does not have any regrets from being on the show last night. I think it was very therapeutic for her to release her  hurt any way necessary. She made a good decision to be on “Fix My Life.” Iyanla was the best person to listen to her issues. Iyanla helped Karrueche understand her behavior and actions. I believe Karrueche was enlightened by Iyanla. I would like Karrueche to know it is ok to cry, be angry, be frustrated, and be sad. It is ok to be authentic with your feelings and who cares who sees it or reads about it. This is how you are feeling now. Face your feelings and express it. Do not ignore it or suppress it. My advise for karrueche is never think your relationship with Chris Brown was a mistake. There is a reason God allowed you and Chris to meet. He was in your life to help you learn a lesson and to know your strengths and weaknesses. I believe Karrueche will overcome this hurt by staying true to herself, loving herself, and still have the ability to love again. The best thing for Karrueche to practice is forgiving herself and Chris. All she can do now is pray for him and love him from a distance.

By Lovely Haitian

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Happy Birthday to all The LEOS who share my Birthday Month!


AquariusJanuary 21 – February 19
PiscesFebruary 20- March 20
AriesMarch 21 – April 20
TaurusApril 21 – May 21
Gemini May 22 – June 21
CancerJune 22 – July 22
LeoJuly 23 -August 21
VirgoAugust 22 – September 23
LibraSeptember 24 – October 23
ScorpioOctober 24 – November 22
SagittariusNovember 23 – December 22
CapricornDecember 23 – January 20

Leo Astrology July 23 – August 22Leo Strength Keywords:

– Confident
– Ambitious
– Generous
– Loyal
– Encouraging

Leo Weakness Keywords:

– Pretentious
– Domineering
– Melodramatic
– Stubborn
– Vain

Leo and Independence:

Leo is very independent but they need something to control and someone to admire them and appreciate them. They are fully capable of being greatly successful on their own but they are much happier if they have an audience and a following of people who look up to them. They would prefer not be alone.

Leo and Friendship:

People are attracted to Leo’s zest for life and their warm spirit. They have the ability to lift up one’s spirits and provide encouragement when times are rough. Their enthusiasm attracts people, Leos are social butterflies, not because they want to be but because people always naturally gravitate and surround the Leo. Leos are very difficult people to not like, they are usually fairly balanced, realistic people. They never dwell on the past and they will think you are strange if you do. Some Leos might be too caught up in themselves and be very self-centered but they are never too self-absorbed to help anyone who needs it. They pamper their friends and treat them well. A Leo is the ultimate friend. They do not hold a grudge and they are very forgiving. They have respect and understanding of people’s differences.

Leo and Business:

Business dealings are easy and successful for Leo, if they are in command and control. This can cause conflict in the workplace should the Leo not be in a position of superiority, but they usually get there eventually thanks to their powerful drive to succeed, in other words, they are excellent leaders because this is their kingdom they have to control, and they do it well. Leo has an amazing ability to get along with people and they work best in a group as opposed to alone. They can be very diplomatic in a group setting and can delegate people well, however Leo will not take orders. They need to give orders but with their enthusiasm and cheerfulness, other people do not have a problem taking orders from a Leo because they are never condescending and they treat others with respect and equality. Leos are full of drama, flair and extravagance and this reflects in the business world. They make an impact, they make a difference in the workplace and help to keep the parts moving in sync and iron out any problems before they arise. If the business fails, that means that Leo fails and they are extremely determined not to fail. Leo is the most extravagant sender of all astrology signs. They will not over do it but they will surround themselves with luxury as much as possible. They will never settle for second best.

Leo Temperament:

Leo loves the new and extraordinary, they despise dull, regular routines and if this is what they are faced with, they will simply create their own drama and excitement. This makes Leo prone to stir up a situation out of nowhere just for something to keep their vivacious temperament satisfied. Leo has an amazing ability to bounce back from any feelings of despair or unfortunate events. They do not like to be unhappy, it hurts their pride so they will take matters into their own hands and make things right again. Leos could come into conflict with other powerhouse type of people who will not take orders and not give an inch, Leos will not budge their opinion, they will understand and accept opinions of others but they do not take well to people to try to impose their beliefs on them. Leo most often have the temperament of a demanding, spoiled child but this is only shown if someone steps on the boundaries of their kingdom. They react this way because of their territoriality.

Leo Deep Inside:

Leos are extremely sensitive but they hide that very well. Leos love praise and flattery, their egos demand respect and adoration. Leo is all about pride. This can cause them to be self-centered but the warmth of the Leo heart keeps it under control. If Leo’s audience (otherwise known as their friends) do not provide the needed appreciation, Leo is too proud to ask for it and they will suffer a hurt ego, but no one will ever know and they will suffer in silence. The secret of the Leo is that they need to be needed.

Leo in a Nutshell:

Leo is the lion, this well suited symbol represents Leo very well. They possess a kingdom which they protest and cherish. The are high esteemed, honorable and very devoted to themselves in particular! The kingdom could be anything from work to home to a partner, whatever it is, you rule it. Leo is always center stage and full of flair, they enjoy basking in the spotlight. A Leo always makes their presence known. Leo are full of energy that acts like a magnet for other people. Others are attracted to Leo’s wit, charm, and what they have to say for they speak of things grand and very interesting. Leo will never settle for second best. They want only the best which can cause lavish excessive spending habits as they enjoy their life of luxury, which is all to easily justified by the grand and magnificent Leo! Public image is very important to Leo, with luxurious possessions and ways of life, this keeps the public image in high standing. They will do whatever it takes to protect their own reputation. Leos are very generous, kind and openhearted people. If a Leo is crossed, they will strike back with force but they are not one to hold a grudge, they easily forgive, forget and move on. Leos are always trying to make things right in the world, they have larger then life emotions and they need to feel like they have accomplished something at the end of the day. They react to situations with action instead of sitting back and thinking about it, they are not impulsive however because they look at the future and consider consequences of their actions. 


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Classical Theatre of Harlem

Classical Theatre of Harlem

After the fireworks on Friday July 4th, plan on going to see Romeo N Juliet on Saturday July 5th!

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Swing Dance

Swing Dance

There is so much fun activities a person can find to enjoy the Summer. Lincoln Center has great events through out the summer. Check it out!

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Movie Time

Movie Time

How many of us are looking forward to “Think like a Man Too?” I saw the first one and loved it. It was hilarious and clean. I know the sequel will be even better. If you have no plans Friday night, go see the movie with your friends or boo and have a good laugh! I plan to go.

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Ayiti Cherie

Ayiti Cherie

I embrace my Haitian culture and heritage. I love supporting my Haitian people.

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American Black Film Festival

American Black Film Festival

Make it a fun weekend by going to the American Black Film Festival! I will be there as well. I will have lots to write about!

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Mary J Blige latest song

Love the remake. It is fun and upbeat.

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